You mentioned almost being excommunicated from the Mormon church. Are you both spiritually in tune with one another's beliefs?
How do you agree when you're both wanting something done your way or the "old way"?
For instance, Boo believes that the dishwasher should be used for drying clean dishes....obviously, I don't. How do you agree to disagree without major arguments?
When there's a family get together of any sort, do the ex's join in with your family or do they celebrate the occasion on their own?
What are you both doing differently that you didn't do in your previous marriages?